Understanding the 3D World
You can easily go down rabbit holes and conspiracy theories when trying to understand the modern world here on earth. But I am constantly guided away from that on my journey. This is the message I received.
Think of it as a board game that is out of balance and escalating as it nears the end. The players are fighting to see who will win and take all. But this is not your game anymore. You are preparing the players for the next game. You will create new rules and it will be in balance.
As I learn to see the world as a classroom for young souls, I understand more. In life there are patterns. When I relate things to these patterns, they make sense. I will try to explain these to you and show how love can still exist in the worst trauma and that no one is really evil.
Remember, you are a soul having a human experience and this can be challenging. Spirituality is learning about the framework. The courses, counselling and hypnotherapy services can help you heal and transcend into the 5D world.
Hierarchies & Power
Basically everything in the 3D world is based on hierarchies. We categorise and structure everything from first to last, highest to lowest, best to worst. This helps us to make sense of things.
Leadership structures are hierarchies. They tell us who is in charge, who has authority, what our roles are. They also give entitlement to the ones in power who can be benevolent or abuse this power by declaring themselves "the Elite". When power is out of balance, someone must give up their power for the Elite to have more. The more power the Elite take, the more people lose their power. This ends up with corruption and abuse of power.
History shows us a series of hierarchical structures that have become too self-centred and abused their power. This includes monarchies, religions, politicians, corporations. Most of us struggle with being given too much power. Parents even struggle with discipline of the children they love.
The lesson was about the use and abuse of power. When we take away the power of another, we cause harm.
The 3 Levels
Drama is the stage of life. We get lost in the drama of living and forget to take time out to restore our balance. This is the game of life where humans act out their lessons.
Society is the external world. It is like the coach, the spectators, the other players who all love telling us what to do and why we are wrong. They see everything from their own perspective. They want something and you are a player in the game that is going to give it to them.
But inside you there is another world. The soul that is here to learn and gain wisdom. As a human you have your own identity, and as a soul you have a purpose. This is to learn your lessons and in return provide service to humanity.
We need society and the drama for our lessons, but when we let them control us, we do not learn - we react and become traumatised.
The internal world is where we go to review, to learn about loving ourselves, to find out what is authentic for us. It is where we connect to our soul world, our higher self, our guides, our purpose.
You need to reflect on the drama, on the external influences, and then decide how YOU want to play the game. After all, it is your life, and you chose it in the soul world for YOUR lessons.
Narcissism & Trauma
We are told that Narcissists are evil and toxic people. But there is an element of narcissism in most of us. When we want something, we manipulate and coerce to get what we want, especially if we really desire it. Marketing, selling, and many other jobs favour narcissistic behaviour - getting people to do what you want, not what is best for them.
We learn it as children when our parents manipulate and lie to us. We learn it to avoid punishment. We learn that charismatic people get ahead more than others. We learn to say what we need to say to get the results we want. We learn that others are merely pawns in our game, and that our survival is the most important thing. We learn how to be winners - at all costs. That success comes from your own efforts.
We learn to harm or be harmed - winning makes it all feel better. That collateral damage is part of the game and not our fault. We know that others are waiting to take our place and will walk all over us given the chance.
The more we have been harmed in the past - felt rejection, abandonment and neglect from those that were supposed to love us, the more we shut off from love and feelings. This is the lesson of respect for ourselves and each other. It is a lesson in letting go of fear and embracing love.
Empaths & Boundaries
The other end of the scale of narcissists is empaths. They are love, crave love, just want to be loved, and they keep getting told they are not good enough, not deserving, have no worth. They lack self-esteem and are insecure.
Narcissists love empaths and often marry them. The empath loves being protected and told they have value, and the narcissist gets a window into what being loved feels like. But there is a price.
Empaths need to learn boundaries, and the narcissist is very good at this, in fact too good. The empath learns to stop people taking advantage of them by the narcisisst showing them how to protect themselves. The narcissist does this because they want exclusive use of the empath. One day, as they grow, they extend this boundary to the narcissist as they realise they have lost all of their friends and family. They rebel and depending upon the narcissist, it may not go well.
Society is built upon taking advantage of the weak and vulnerable. Marketing is aimed at your low self-esteem. Our consumer world loves empaths, especially if they feel crap about themselves and want to please others. Bosses love people pleasers. Governments love people who fall for their lies. Corporations love people who feel too powerless to stand up against them. Everyone loves a victim as it makes us feel better about ourselves.
Empaths feel pain and suffering of the world, and so they are reluctant to fight back. They are the perfect doormat when they have not learned boundaries. This is their lesson.
Masculine & Feminine Energy
Every person has masculine and feminine energy within them. The masculine is the warrior. It ranges from the positive aspect of the protector to the negative side of the predator. It is the Yang energy. The feminine energy is the nurturer. It ranges from the positive carer to the negative victim. It is the Yin energy.
Our 3D world has favoured the masculine energy, giving it the role of leadership and privilege. This dates back to early caveman where the male was the hunter.
It treats feminine energy as a weakness, only appropriate in the home, when the hunter needs to rest. The feminine energy raises the children and looks after the sick, while the masculine energy goes out into the world to fight for more.
Males are conditioned to suppress their feminine energy, whilst females are conditioned to suppress their masculine energy. This is why we are so out of balance and suffer such discrimination and inequality in our world.
The lesson of balancing your masculine and feminine energy is learning acceptance of yourself and others. You are multifaceted and respond as best you can. Sometimes when we are out of balance, our negative aspects are revealed, and loving ourselves, includes accepting those negative sides of who we can be in times of stress.
Fear of the Unknown
Young souls lacked experience. Like primary school, anything new is threatening. The younger you are, the more frightened you get and go into fight or flight response.
When you live in fear, anything different is seen as a threat. This is the basis of all of our isms - racism, sexism, ageism, etc. Th Elite use fear to control the masses, making you cling to your tribe for safety and not venture too far from the known.
Our reward/punishment system is based on fear and control. Our parenting is based on fear of danger and disapproval. Our nationalism is based on fear of other countries. Our politics is based on fear of the economy failing and leaving us destitute. Our social behaviour is based on fear of judgement.
We are told to trust the experts, what would we know? If science hasn't proved it yet, it is not true. Our world is shrunk down to what we can control and everything else is a threat. We crave love but fear we will never find it. We allow others to control us because we are afraid of making a mistake. Then we learn to blame everything on the outside world when our life is not perfect. We become toddlers throwing tantrums, blaming God. We give away our power through fear.
The lesson here is the other side of the lesson in the hierarchies. It is about taking back our power, having confidence and trusting in ourselves. For hierarchies and abuse of power to be possible, we need to have fear. When we let go of fear, we eliminate abuse of power.
When you understand the limitations of the 3D world, it makes sense how we were able to get out of control. The ambition of youth and temptation of power made us forget that we are not individuals, but a part of humanity. Our drive to survive meant that we ignored the damage we were doing to our environment. We kept pushing the consequences down the track, thinking we would have time to atone for our actions. We partied hard and now we will have to pay the price.